I was watching the video by Joey Graceffa and decided to take the test. :) It seems like a really fun thing to do and I was really bored anyway. Hehe.
5 Love Language Profile <--- Try it here! :)
So basically, after doing the test, scores will be given, based on the 5 different love languages and the highest score is 12.
My scores:
Quality time (11)
Words of affirmation (8)
Physical touch (6)
Acts of service (3)
Receiving gifts (2)
From here, my primary love language is to spend quality time with the people I love. Its the way I like to express my love for the people around me and the way that I like to be loved. Which I find that its pretty true and accurate. I feel that its the easiest and most straight forward way of expressing love to the people I love because if I love them, it only makes sense that I would want to spend time with them doing everything that can bring us closer or to create memories with. It would not be a chore or something that is difficult for me cos I care for them and I love them, that's why I want to spend time with them and not just spend time. I want to spend real quality time with them. I would never hesitate to go out and hang out with people as and when they want to as long as i'm free. Its the way I give and receive love from others. :)
The second one is also very true to me. I need people to tell me and affirm me about everything. Its how I feel loved I guess. I'm not quite sure if I say words of affirmation to others to express my love for them but I definitely receive love that way. Words of affirmation makes me feel accepted as well. It makes me feel like people see what i've been doing and they appreciate all that i've done. Guess its partly linked to being a leo too huh. Leos need the acceptance from others in whatever they do. It kills me a little on the inside when people doesn't see the effort that I put into doing stuff. Cos from then it makes me feel really useless. So now that's where it came from.
Somehow I don't really have much to comment about physical touch and acts of services. Haha. I feel the presence of that two aspects but not as obvious and "loud" as the top two.
And last but not least, gifts means very little to me, to be very honest. When I was a kid, I feel the need for gifts on special occasions like birthdays or christmas. But as I grew older, I don't appreciate gifts the way I did when I was a lot younger. It still makes me happy when I receive them but its definitely not the thing that I care the most about. Probably that's why I am really bad at getting others gifts. I never know what to give to others and i'm usually over practical with my gifts. Haha. I appreciate quality time a lot more. :)
So... yupyup. I took the test and had a little fun on my own, understanding myself a little better and it doesn't feel like i've wasted my time so its great. ^_^
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